GOD IS REAL SMART!!

As tha title suggests, God is REAL smart. He planned out this "He-She Thing" from the VERY GET GO!!! From creation... Even slightly before that. Everything with all the He-People on earth, compliments the She-People on earth. (hehe... He-People..) But God not only made us to suppliment each other, but He also made us SIMILAR in some aspects of ourselves. Eg: Guys all stress about providing (for themselves or for the peep around them) FINANCIALLY. And girls all stress about providing EMOTIONALLY. This not to say a girl can't provide financially, neither am i implying a dude can't provide emotionally. It jus comes more naturally for one than the other. But PROVISION is on the mind of hes as well as shes.
With God, doing it how He planned it, all aspects of Our lives fit PERFECTLY!!!! Perfectly!
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Like ladies, tha GUYS SHOULD CHASE YOU!!!! Asin, REALLY CHASE YOU!! I say give them a DELIBARATE OBVIOUS HARD TIME!!!!! ..relax gentlemen...ladies, don't get conceited now... Cause, am realizing that this is how God intended it. Guys are easily distracted. So if he chases and you keep running:
-You can sift through all the lame-dudes that may want some of you, be left with the good guy(s)
-Dudes can decide how badly they want this girl.
Cause you can both get sex anywhere, am talking if you want more....
Even once your his 'significant other', and he yours, ladies i still say don't make it too easy for him.

Now, this isn't no 'miss-independent, female-empowerment, free the girl-child' post (think those have been over-done) am jus stating the process i've come to understand is God's plan...

....Jacob worked for FOURTEEN YEARS on Racheal's dad's farm, so that he could eventually marry her.

'Wives submit to your husbands...'
This is to be an act of love not oppresion.
'Husbands love your wives...'
Now cause this bugger chased you like MaRRD and whilst doing that showed you over & over how much he wants you, and more importantly how much he loves you. Thus, when y'all say "I do" you, the damsel, will feel loved and safe enough to 'submit' to this He-person. As a show of your love and respect for him. This is in no way meant to degrade the woman, nor elevate the man..its jus that if a man loves and cares for his woman, the woman should reciprocate his love with respect shown through submission. Cause women need to be LOVED more than anything, men need to be RESPECTED more than anything.

See God's logic...? He made man and woman to be together. Fashioning women pre-desposed to submission. And fashioning men pre-desposed to love one woman.
[Some of y'all may be wondering 'Guys, one woman? But they cheat' First, we both cheat... Secondly, when a guy truly loves a girl, for real, she's all he sees]

As long as we understand and follow the process God put in place, we will indeed live happily ever after!!